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family lived. The family later moved to the Southside Place, a small community within the Loop, and Kate began high school at Lamar High School but later transferred to San Jacinto High School down- town. She was smart enough to get by, she says, but quit in 1964. She first met Mel Baker in a bowling alley in 1965, and they married a year later. They lived above a shop in Westbury Square, then a global-village shopping center. Mel worked with computers. Their son Noble was born in 1969. Kate worked in an art-photography studio and helped start a recy- cling center and build a down- town park for Earth Day. Mel got a better job in Livermore, Calif., and they lived there for five years. The marriage ended in divorce in 1972, and Kate and Noble returned to Houston. Working as a sales clerk at Foley’s was boring and poorly paid, Kate says, but communal living in the Montrose district from 1973 to 1977 kept down living costs. Kate worked for seven years, from 1979 to 1986, at the Baytown Steel Mill – work that was much better paid but demanding. Hard manual work in the summer heat of Houston was one thing, but the level of sexual harassment was worse. Notwithstanding, she survived and took a buy out in 1986. Remarried in Houston in 1987, Kate had a comfortable life in the Houston suburbs and learned to cook, took art class- es and traveled. She was unhappy in the marriage, how- ever, and it ended in divorce 12 years later. For 10 years, she had been visiting Big Bend, where her brother Ted resided, so she now took the opportuni- ty to move there. In 1999, she bought a small 1905 house in Marathon. Clyde Curry was building a straw-bale house in Marathon and had had bed and breakfast experience previously. The couple decided to start a new bed and breakfast, called Eve’s Garden, which opened in 2001. Kate and Clyde married a year later. The building, still being worked on, combines art, architecture and ecology. Few who enter for the first time are not impressed by the vibrant colors in the domed bedrooms, the wild garden which supplies vegetables for meals, the pool and the artworks hanging in the main house. And when the breakfast arrives with an edible nasturtium petal, the experi- ence is complete. ZOEY SEXTON A transition from the Canadian border to the border with Mexico is about as far as one can travel domestically. In the case of Zoey Sexton, it has been a long trip but a successful one. She was born, the third of four children, on April 21, 1950 to Sid and Charlotte Nelson in Bemidji, Minn., 100 miles from the Canadian bor- der. Childhood was a happy memory of outdoor life on the 200 acres her dad farmed. “It was a rich life,” Zoey recalls, “not monetarily, but the family never lacked.” She was a shy country youngster and moving from nearby Carlake grade school (14 kids total) to Bemidji High School in 1968 (class of 250) was difficult, and she didn’t eas- ily fit in. Her interest was in English, and a teacher intro- duced her to Beowulf and Shakespeare. “A great basic education,” she recalls. At Bemidji High she met Kevin Sexton, through a cousin, and they fell in love. They were married in 1971, and their son Chad Mathew was born in December of that year. They moved to St. Paul, where Kevin became a systems analyst for a software company and in 1991 started his own business. Zoe worked for Security Life Insurance Company for 16 years, rising to assistant vice president (tech- nology). In 1995 she fell ill, with Lyme disease. With hindsight, she now sees this as a blessing in disguise. Zoey and Kevin quit business life, sold their house and bought a truck, with few plans except to head south. They had heard about the Big Bend area of Texas and, when they arrived, fell in love with it. A chance meeting with Angie Dean, proprietor of the Starlight Theater in Terlingua Ghost Town, led to a job offer. This was fun, and she worked there from 1997 to 1999 and subsequently at Lajitas Stables. Kevin meanwhile worked for Far Flung Adventures as a river guide. Zoe was kicked by a horse in 2004 and took almost three years to heal, but redirected her thoughts to a different lifestyle. After living in an RV, Kevin announced he wanted to build. They bought land in a valley on Terlingua Ranch and with little experience started to build. The result was a rock house with porches all round, a pitched roof and tile floor. Huge rainwater tanks and sta- bling for their horses are adja- cent. They are close to nature. A Scott’s oriole sang a sweet song just outside the house as we spoke. “We destroy the earth that feeds us; we must learn to take care of ourselves ecologically,” Zoe believes. In 2008 she got involved in the Terlingua Community Garden and then attached to it a farmers’ market which grew. Next came the “Terlingua Green Scene,” an event now in its third year, which she organizes with Shannon Carter. The Green Scene features a demonstration of building techniques and water conservation, sales of produce, ever-present music and in the evening theater and film events – a timely and pop- ular event for today’s Terlingua. 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